I don't want to always be the "good person": bravely return the painful, dysfunctional relationships and only keep the right ones!
I don't want to always be the "good person": bravely return the painful, dysfunctional relationships and only keep the right ones!
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Do you always blame yourself, thinking, "If only I tried a little harder, would the relationship change?"
Please bravely abandon relationships that bring you harm!
A psychologist who has helped 3,000 people rebuild their relationships teaches you how to become a gentle yet firm person!
—Korean online bookstore, 5-star reviews—
No relationship is worth letting yourself be battered and bruised!
This book will teach you how to maintain an appropriate distance, set kind boundaries, and say goodbye to negative relationships.
Do you have any relationships in your life that need to be returned? Or are you unknowingly trapped in a distorted relationship?
Author Park Min-geun has summarized several common situations, such as:
• Fearing disapproval, you always accommodate others, gradually losing yourself over time….
• Constantly exploited by your boss, even scrambling to send work LINE messages at night—you're going crazy!
• Not knowing how to interact with people, feeling awkward as soon as you speak, always being excluded.
• Unable to refuse others, easily swayed, forced into multi-level marketing, even leading to family discord!
• Your supervisor lacks empathy and is nitpicky; getting along with them is so painful!
Many people, even when getting along unhappily with friends, colleagues, or family, still force themselves to "endure it one more time,"
continuing to live in agony.
Park Min-geun was also like this. He used to always tolerate things, thinking, "When there's a problem in a relationship, it's all my fault."
But he later realized that continuing these relationships brought no benefit to his life.
So, he made up his mind to re-evaluate his circle of friends and "return" a large number of relationships, severing ties with dozens of friends.As a result, without these troublesome relationships, he lived better than before and learned to cherish the people who truly mattered.
